Are you his little secret?

If you find yourself in a situation where one year down the line, you only know one of his friends or none, then know that he’s using you and has someone else tucked somewhere who is know by his friends and relatives.

As women we always try to make excuses for the men in our lives and if one year down the line you have only met one of his friends then you argue that he is a very busy man.

Well, sister, the truth is that most of these men who keep you out of sight have a strategy. They always pretend to be on the move, with the most unpredictable schedule such that when they spend that one day a week with you, it is a major sacrifice on their part.

They will call you at odd times to see if you can hook up, of course at your place and after some hanky panky they will smoke a cigarette and be on their way out, they will keep in touch because they don’t want to spoil one of their available hanky panky options.

Once in a while, they will treat you out to drinks at a very secluded posh bar where you are not likely to bump into people you know.

Those my sister, are clear indications that you are his little secret and no matter what you would like to call it, you are just that and nothing more.

It is therefore upon you to decide whether two can play the game, get what you want and enjoy it, but if your heart is getting heavy just reading this and realising that he has been taking you for a ride, then you better run as far as your legs can carry you because these are the very selfish men who will leave you and marry someone else without as much as a backward glance.