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Kenya marriages face drastic makeover
Ms Judy Thongori, a family lawyer and former executive director Fida, addresses participants during a debate on the Marriage Bill 2007 at a Nairobi hotel on Thursday. Photo/PETERSON GITHAIGA
Posted Friday, May 1 2009 at 20:07
If the Marriage Bill 2007 to be debated in the current session of Parliament becomes law, the Kenyan marriage is in for radical changes.
The new amendments are bound to trigger protests, raise eyebrows, elicit sighs of relief or outright jubilation depending on how one interprets the proposed law.
Clauses likely to spark controversy are those that recognise polygamous marriages, outlaw mandatory payment of dowry and one that provides for either spouse to maintain the other in case of separation.
No marriage laws address polygamy and its existence is only recognised by courts within customary marriages and the Law of Succession Act. However, the Marriage Bill 2007 not only recognises polygamous unions, but also provides for their registration.
But those in monogamous unions cannot enter polygamous ones. Further, a man who has chosen polygamy cannot convert to a monogamy unless at the time of conversion, he only had one wife.
Speaking at a forum to discuss the Bill this week, family lawyer Judy Thongori explained that couples tying the knot at the Registrar of Marriages should indicate whether the marriage is intended to be polygamous or monogamous.
“This means that women, too, have a say on the kind of union they want. Where the intended husband is already married, he will have to indicate the names of the existing wife or wives,” Ms Thongori said.
The Bill also provides that one does not have to pay dowry, rendering a customary marriage complete irrespective whether a bride price has been paid or not.
“However, people will no longer be able to go to court to recover dowry as the Bill says it will not be recoverable,” she said.
The deputy chairperson of the Kenya Law Reform Commission, Ms Nancy Baraza, said currently the husband had a duty to support a needy wife but there was no duty for the wife to do the same.
“This provision has sparked protests, but we can’t talk of justice and equality between the sexes if the same rules don’t apply to men and women,” she said.
Some Kenyans will be pleased to know that the Bill also recognises marriages by cohabitation. Currently no Act of Parliament provides for this marriage.
Though the courts recognise such marriages, Ms Thongori observes that the standard of proof is very demanding because if your spouse disputes the marriage’s existence, you will be hard-pressed to find evidence to prove otherwise.
“You have to rely on family members, neighbours and photos to prove that you lived as husband and wife,” she said.
If the Bill becomes law, and if a couple has lived together openly as husband and wife for at least two years, they can obtain a certificate. The Bill also allows for the registration of customary marriages.
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Submitted by ChakorirPosted May 07, 2009 02:52 AM
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Submitted by mugojoseph
Keep off marriages please.Drop this polygamous proposal and let man (male and female) decide what is best for them. We should be stressing on the upkeep of children no matter what happens in marriage instead of this polygamous business. It is outdated, achaic and stinks.
Posted May 07, 2009 02:20 AM -
Submitted by Njoro84
only islamic states can top this stupidity!
Posted May 07, 2009 12:01 AM -
Submitted by enanjala
suggesting legalization of polyandry to equal polygamy is to invite a "civil war" in the family. How many such relationships are happy? I think we should stick with what will enhance the family fabric, and believe me, polygamy has been a catalyst of family feuds. Wake up!
Posted May 06, 2009 12:06 PM -
Submitted by meko
Be carefull before you come up with changes that will only complicate matters. Polygumous marraiges should not be enshrined into our laws whatsoever.If that is the case then let us also allow women to have more than one man.
Posted May 06, 2009 02:29 AM




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I know it sounds crazy but men have been using women in Africa and dumping them when they want. If you are going to have a mshikaji, one should be prepared for being held accountable legally. I say women should support this bill because they are the ones left with kids and baby daddies not wanting to take responsibilities of their actions. And this also gives the women a legal standing in the relationship.