Africa
Zuma criticised for staging his fifth wedding ceremony
South African President Jacob Zuma has stirred debate over polygamy with his recent traditional wedding to Thobeka Mad iba (right), his fifth wife. Photo/ REUTERS
Posted Tuesday, January 5 2010 at 18:14
In Summary
- Leader of Christian party describes event as a sign of steps in the wrong direction
NKANDLA, South Africa, Tuesday
South African President Jacob Zuma’s marriage to his fifth wife was not without a hitch. While dancing, he appeared to lose his balance and fell. He did not seem to be seriously hurt.
The wedding was described as a “giant step back into the dark ages” by the leader of an opposition party while a gender activist also described it as a wrong move.
The leader of South Africa’s Christian Democratic Party (CDP), Reverend Theunis Botha said Mr Zuma’s wedding “to a woman he is reported to have already fathered three children with, and the alarming return to ancestral worship is a giant step back into the dark ages.”
It was the same ancestral traditions that had plagued Africa in the past and that had kept it the continent in superstition and poverty, and not colonialism as some people believed, claimed The Rev Botha.
The Rev Botha is also acting chairperson of the Christian Democratic Alliance.
Polygamy is not common among young urban middle-class South Africans, but Zuma’s defence of his Zulu culture has endeared him to conservative African traditionalists.
“There are plenty of politicians who have mistresses and children that they hide so as to pretend they are monogamous. I prefer to be open. I love my wives and I am proud of my children,” Mr Zuma has said, defending polygamy in a television interview.
But his lifestyle and his campaign theme song, “Bring Me My Machine Gun,” are seen by some as sending an inappropriate “hyper-masculine” message. Some activists view it as old-fashioned; others see it as deeply worrying.
“We’re at a complicated moment in South African history with revived traditionalism, and there’s a danger of gender transformation being lost,” Dean Peacock of the gender activist group Sonke Gender Justice Network said at a past news conference.
“We hear men saying, ‘If Jacob Zuma can have many wives, I can have many girlfriends.’ The hyper-masculine rhetoric of the Zuma campaign is going to set back our work in challenging the old model of masculinity.”
Mr Zuma was acquitted in 2006 on charges of raping a family friend, but his comments during testimony disturbed many South Africans — including one remark that he knew his accuser wanted sex because she was wearing a short skirt.
Mr Zuma married his fifth wife, Thobeka Madiba, outside his homestead on Monday afternoon in a colourful traditional wedding which attracted scores of guests and media.
Three large tents were erected for the “udendwe” wedding ceremony under overcast skies in Zuma’s rural homestead in Nkandla, deep in the countryside of KwaZulu-Natal province.
The two formally wed when a tribal elder asked Madiba if she accepted to join the Zuma family.
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Submitted by ecotechnologistPosted January 09, 2010 11:29 PM
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Submitted by jaributest
By wishing for Apartheid back you show who truly is illiterate and ignorant - any enlightened/wise man would not wish for Apartheid back. When you insult African traditions you really insult yourself - your immediate ancestors, i.e., maybe your dad, definitely your grandparents practiced the same, so in essence you are calling them idiots - I would like to say that to their faces.
Posted January 09, 2010 11:04 PM -
Submitted by shidamingi
Mr Zuma except for your first wife the rest were mistresses before they graduated into wives. You hide them first then you bring them to light. Since you have the resources, you marry them.
Posted January 09, 2010 06:17 PM -
Submitted by jojooos
Leave the man alone. Research has shown that polygamy is linked to longevity in men..check this out http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14564-polygamy-is-the-key-to-a-long-life.html No wonder these days women outlive men. think about it
Posted January 09, 2010 01:14 AM -
Submitted by chazz95
This makes a lot more sense than a guy sweating in Kisumu's heat in a 3-piece suit or the Speaker and High Court Judges in Kenya wearing blond wazung wigs. Also much better to have 10 legal wives than one official one and 10 mistresses that are shared by others. Go, Zuma!
Posted January 08, 2010 10:49 PM




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The debate about polygamy aside: Every time this man gets married it cost the country a fortune, and the protection of his family is redirecting public funds that should be used for the people. He has 4 years of presidency and it appears that he is using his new power merely to increase his family through this posturing. His pompous priorities for weddings, wives and children only reflect his personal ambitions and his utter lack of concern for the people of South Africa. I only hope they learn from this, and vote for someone with a conscience next time.