From my heart to yours

Letting go of past hurts and wounds that caused us pain will start you on a journey to your healing and deliverance. Forgiveness doesn’t have to agree with what the offender did to you. However, it makes the choice to forgive unconditional. PHOTO | FILE

What you need to know:

  • Forgiveness doesn’t have to agree with what the offender did to you. However, it makes the choice to forgive unconditional.
  • You gain freedom when you grant your offender forgiveness, you are  will finally be able to release the inner frustrations and pain.

1. In moments of pain, what you do with that hurt that has been inflicted on you is probably more important than the hurt itself.

2. When you choose blame, it will give you short term relief. But, the problem with blame is that it can often leave you powerless and more wounded that before.

3. Letting go of past hurts and wounds that caused us pain will start you on a journey to your healing and deliverance.

4. Forgiveness doesn’t have to agree with what the offender did to you. However, it makes the choice to forgive unconditional.

5. Two hardest things in forgiving your offender are: that forgiveness will give your offender what they do not deserve; and that forgiveness can be viewed by some as a sign of weakness.

6. The ability to forgive your partner will create closeness and intimacy which will help erase anger and isolation that could negative impact on your relationship.

7. You gain freedom when you grant your offender forgiveness, you are  will finally be able to release the inner frustrations and pain that were associated with us forgiveness.