Ten ways to keep your relationship alive

In every relationship, spouses must learn to appreciate and affirm each other. PHOTO | FILE

What you need to know:

  • Most relationships die for lack of commitment to the values that make relationships last.
  • Commit to fight for each other and for the relationship against external aggressors.

1 Be others focused: A self-centered person will seek to focus on self and not on their partner.

2 Use compliments regularly: In every relationship, spouses must learn to appreciate and affirm each other.

3 Remain faithful: Most relationships die for lack of commitment to the values that make relationships last.

4 Be approachable: Relationships thrive better in a climate where there is minimal hostility and great consideration and understanding.

5 Be present and supportive: Couples must learn to be empathetic with each other. This only happens when they decide to be there for each other, both physically and emotionally.

6 Defend each other: Commit to fight for each other and for the relationship against external aggressors.

7 Be accepting and forgiving: When trials and difficult times come, a relationship will only survive if both parties show tolerance, forgiveness and acceptance. No one is perfect.

8 Avoid role confusion: When we accept and enjoy performing our roles in the relationship, it removes confusion and stress.

9 Embrace a common vision and values: A relationship without clear values is like a ship on stormy waters.

10 Make wise investments: Each spouse must strive to discover the other’s potential strengths and weakness in order to come up with ways of growing the relationship.