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Kitoto, reading your column has helped me better understand my wife and the issues we go through. Keep it up. PHOTO | FILE

What you need to know:

  • Sadly, many enter marriage without the necessary understanding of what it will take to walk together. In fact some people are of the attitude that say, “What is there to learn.”
  • We need to understand that the reason for marriage lies not in the marriage itself, but in our attitude towards our partner and the relationship.

Hi Kitoto,

I salute you. I always read your column and I admire the way you soberly answer peoples problems.

Reading your column has helped me better understand my wife and the issues we go through. Keep it up.

Magaju Antony

 

Hi

I receive the compliments on behalf of the team. Since education is the bedrock of all social and economic discovery and development, Benjamin Franklin advises that genius without education is like silver in the mine.

Sadly, many enter marriage without the necessary understanding of what it will take to walk together. In fact some people are of the attitude that say, “What is there to learn.” Someone once said, that there is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. He said that, this little difference is attitude.

Most of today’s marriages and relationships would be saved and improved if that difference is addressed.

We seek to add to the knowledge that will unlock negative attitudes towards such learning.

We need to understand that the reason for marriage lies not in the marriage itself, but in our attitude towards our partner and the relationship.

Those who then look forward to learn, however little concerning their partner and the relationship, end up making investments of a lifetime. We are encouraged by stories of people like you who see this as an avenue to learn and seek to improve on the way we relate.