JUST BRENDA: Help me end this affair

Thursday October 12 2017

I got into a relationship with another lady and

I got into a relationship with another lady and the relationship seems not to end however much I try it. PHOTO | FILE| NATION MEDIA GROUP 

By JUST BRENDA
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Hi,

I am 31 years old and married. We’re blessed with two kids. I got into a relationship with another lady and the relationship seems not to end however much I try it. Help me!

Hey there, Lascivious Louis.

If you are 100 per cent sure you are not in an open relationship, then you have a problem.

Perhaps explore why you started having an affair in the first place, instead of seeking the solution deep in someone else.

Talk to your wife and confess, then work on the way forward – unless you don't love her any more, which is a whole different kettle of fish.

You're making a fool of her, and yourself, so put on your big boy pants. Leave the diapers for your children and do the right thing, unless your vows had a non-exclusivity clause. And what do you mean, it seems not to end? Is someone holding a gun to your head? If you really wanted to end it, you would have – the same way you must have wanted to start it. There is no try. Only do.

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