Resilient rape survivor Liz wants to save girls like her

Thursday October 5 2017

*Liz during the interview. In 2013, she was

*Liz during the interview. In 2013, she was gang raped as she returned home from her grandfather’s funeral in Western Kenya. PHOTO| JUDY KOSGEI 

By NAITORE NYAMU-MATHENGE

One night in 2013, a 16-year-old girl was gang raped as she returned home from her grandfather’s funeral in Western Kenya.

After being brutally assaulted and beaten by six young men that she knew, her attackers threw her into a 12 feet-deep pit latrine, leaving her for dead.

It was a vicious crime, attracting international condemnation and outrage across the world.

IDENTITY PROTECTION

The victim, referred to as Liz to protect her identity, was found barely alive the next day by villagers.

The attack was so violent that she suffered obstetric fistula and spinal cord damage, leaving her incontinent and wheelchair-bound.

Three of the perpetrators were detained by locals and taken to a nearby police station in Busia.

But rather than officially prosecuting the men, officers ordered them to cut the lawn outside the station as punishment. Then they were released from custody.

FELT HELPLESS

I remember the first time I met Liz - I felt so distraught, angry and helpless.

I was angry at the justice system and at the perpetrators of this heinous crime, and at the wider society for letting this young girl down so badly.

*Liz during the interview. In 2013, she was

*Liz during the interview. In 2013, she was gang raped as she returned home from her grandfather’s funeral in Western Kenya. PHOTO| JUDY KOSGEI

As a program officer for international human rights organisation Equality Now, I was there to listen to Liz’s story and see what we could do to help.

I was unsure what to ask or tell her.  She was already dealing with a huge amount of trauma and public attention. Her happy, cheerful teenage life had been torn apart and here she was, so distraught.

MISCARRIAGE OF JUSTICE

The failure of the police officers to arrest the perpetrators and arraign them in court was a serious miscarriage of justice.

It also illustrated a common response by Kenyan police to crimes of sexual violence: not taking it seriously; delaying or denying justice for victims; and blaming or attacking the victim’s credibility.

Many organisations soon took to the streets to protest against the lenient punishment and to call upon the relevant state agencies in Kenya to arrest and prosecute the perpetrators.

A campaign called #JusticeforLiz gained international momentum, with over 1.2 million people signing a petition in support.

Mounting public pressure eventually led to three of the men being arrested, charged and convicted.

Equality Now supported the legal case, which was seen as a landmark ruling, and the accused were sentenced to 15 years for gang rape and seven years for causing grievous harm.

JUSTICE, FINALLY

Although Liz and her family were glad that some justice had finally been served, Liz was still coping with the aftermath of the attack.

* Liz chatting with Naitore Nyamu- Mathenge,

* Liz chatting with Naitore Nyamu- Mathenge, the Program Officer, End Sexual Violence/ Justice for girls at  Equality Now. PHOTO| JUDY KOSGEI

She had to undergo numerous operations and needed ongoing psychosocial support to deal with the emotional trauma.

Adding to the turmoil, Liz and her family were forced into hiding and had to move to another town because of threats and reprisal attacks from relatives of the men who had raped her. Even at their new home, the family had to rely on Kenya’s Witness Protection Agency for security.

Fast forward four years to 2017, I am seated next to Liz once more and I feel excited about our meeting because this time there is something to celebrate. Liz is now grown-up and she has a smile on her face.

STILL SHY

Although still shy, we manage to have a conversation about what she has been doing.

An anonymous donor is providing support to Liz through Equality Now so she has been able to continue with her education and her personal effects are taken care of. She loves her new school and is working hard at her studies.

Liz no longer requires a wheelchair but one of her legs has still not fully recovered. She walks with a limp and cannot go long distances on foot or participate fully in sports. Her spinal injuries have also left her with a constant backache. Despite all this, and the monthly medical check-ups she requires, there has been an incredible improvement in her well-being and her mood is upbeat.

EXTREMELY IMPRESSED

I am extremely impressed by the transformation that Liz has gone through. I think to myself:  she must be a very courageous young woman, a fighter. I feel so happy that she has lived to tell her story and is forging ahead with life.

Liz still does not understand why the people she thought were her friends gang raped her. This is something she may never get answers to. However, she is positive about what lies ahead. In her own words, she believes that “the worst is behind her”.

As I prepare to bid goodbye to Liz, she mentions that she wants to study Medicine. I ask why she has chosen this career path. Her response warms my heart.

“The doctor who took care of me after I was gang raped saved my life, I want to do the same for other girls who might find themselves in my position.”

Naitore Nyamu-Mathenge is a Program Officer at Equality Now

 

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