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Always sisters, forever friends
Twins Shilla Makena (left) and Sheila Kageni during the interview. PHOTO/ JENNIFER MUIRURI
Posted Tuesday, November 3 2009 at 19:00
In Summary
- Twins Sheila Kageni and Shilla Makena share such a strong bond that they hope even when they get married, they will be next-door neighbours.
Their graduation from the Catholic University of East Africa in Karen last month was a milestone in the lives of twins Sheila Kageni and Shilla Makena, whose lives have been marked by stiff but friendly competition.
It was a moment of pride for the sisters as they as they marched just a few steps from each other in the queue, thanks to the narrow difference — less than a point — between their final marks. It was not the first time the two have been so close to each other in academic rankings.
Competition between them began in primary school, with each working hard to beat the other in the end-term examinations.
“It is not that one of us was brighter than the other, but we wanted to keep the difference in marks between us narrow because there was some comfort in that,” says Shilla, the bigger of the two who, ironically, is younger.
So when they sat for the Kenya Certificate of Primary School Education (KCPE) finals, there was only a two-point difference in their marks. Due to this stiff competition, whenever either of them performed badly in a certain subject, they would both be punished.
“Dad always found a plausible reason to punish us both. For instance, if one of us made a ‘serious’ mistake, he would look for something wrong the other person had done to justify punishing her as well. This curbed jealousy between us and made us feel he was treating us equally, besides encouraging us to work hard,” says Sheila of their father, Moses Naivasha, an engineer.
Meanwhile, their mother, Violet Muthoni, who was a teacher, ensured they were disciplined.
So as they received their Bachelor of Commerce (second class honours) degrees, with family and friends applauding, it was a dream come true for the 23-year-olds, who have had a passion for the subject since their high school days at Kyeni Girls’ High School in Embu.
They both loved commerce but were in different streams, so when one felt her teacher was not as good as the other’s, she simply took advantage of their resemblance to attend her sister’s class.
Major disadvantage
Their fellow students and teachers had a difficult time telling them apart, and teachers had to refer to the class list to tell which of the two they were teaching.
“We would answer to whichever name we were called, which only added to the confusion,” offers Shilla, the more talkative of the two.
But she quickly adds that their resemblance was a major disadvantage when it came to paying for each other’s mistakes. She says a fellow student would give Sheila something, for instance, but would come to demand it back from her.
“Convincing her that I was not the one she had given the item was a problem,” she says.
Given their love for commerce, it is not surprising that they took the same course at university. “It was a foregone conclusion,” Sheila says.
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Submitted by ritahroggsPosted November 06, 2009 11:58 PM
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Submitted by nikokib
Congrats to Sheila and Shilla for the healthy competition, keeping well and being great examples to many. To the writer..please bring more of such stories. To those who think this is not news then I believe you literally take the meaning of the word newspaper. The Nation isnt only a Newspaper it is a way of life for many of us and for sure this story deserves a place in the Nation!
Posted November 06, 2009 07:08 AM -
Submitted by menjamuki
Sheila and shilla, you are the pride of our country. love the life story and congrats for setting a good example to other twins and more so to you little bro and sis. your parents must be so proud of you. loved twins but lukly have atleast 10 months separation of my two kids. best of everything in life and live for one onether even after marriage, but not for the down fall of the others, esp. in marriage where fishy things are seen in such identity confusions.
Posted November 04, 2009 08:24 PM -
Submitted by KingJulian
I disagree with those who don't like this story. It's a human interest story, some of us find it refreshing to see something that is devoid of politics, violence, or any of the other ills in the world. 'Cause let's face it that is what sells newspapers. A story about an aspect of everyday life is a nice break from it!
Posted November 04, 2009 07:01 PM -
Submitted by vgogero
Why would their parents chose similar names just because they are identical twins why not Sheila and Rita instead But anyway a Rose is still Rose by any other name.
Posted November 04, 2009 05:31 PM




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congrats arociaa!!!!! this is nice, am impressed. n to those criticising nation for publishing this story, shut up! we dont just want to read hard stories about politics.