Battling cancer with lots of hope

• Little Jeff Mutuku battles Leukemia as his family makes sacrifices just to see him get better

Jeff Mutuku is just five years old and his Christmas wish is a little more sobering than what many kids his age would want, “I want a car, a bicycle, a motorcycle...no, I really want to get healed,” he says.

Having cancer has put a lot of physical, emotional and financial strain unto his family. His father, Felix Maingi has walked through this path with his son for about a year now and recounts with great concern how life has changed for him and his family.

It took several trips in and out of hospital for a year before Felix sensed that something was terribly wrong with his young son.

“He would easily catch a cold, tonsils flu and had a very high fever. This saw his schooling terribly interrupted for the better part of 2007,” says the father of seven. As a result, Jeff never had the chance to complete his pre-school and has come to know the hospital as his second home.

The following year, Felix took his son into consultations with paediatricians at five different hospitals in Nairobi. They were desperately seeking answers to his health problems. Yet with all the knowledge these doctors claimed to have in child health care, Jeff still ailed.

“My son’s health kept on deteriorating, although, on different occasions, the doctors treated him of either malaria or typhoid. Even up-to-date, I have never come to understand this,” says the boy’s father in discontent.

Luckily, a different diagnosis was made in early 2009 at the Gertrude’s Children’s Hospital in Muthaiga. The boy was found to be suffering from leukemia – a malignant progressive blood condition in which the bone marrow and other blood-forming organs produce increased numbers of abnormal white-blood cells.

Felix, who works at a printing press at Roysambu, could not keep up with the high charges at the hospital. So when the doctors at Gertrude later referred them to the Kenyatta National Hospital, he was grateful to get admission.

Unknown to him, this marked the beginning of a long journey – given the time-consuming stages of anti-cancer treatment that has seen him tethered to his son.

“The whole of this year as from February, we have been at the children’s cancer ward. My son has only been home for two weeks since then,” Felix says.

“ I have been missing my brother John, mum, daddy and everyone else,” the little boy, who has been discharged despite a pending bill, says.

Initially, Felix would baby-sit his son at his hospital bed.

“I have this strong attachment to my son and I could not stand seeing him go through this illness alone. Also, the diagnosis came at a time when his mother was very pregnant and I seemed not to have a choice. But with time, I got to realise that anti-cancer treatment needed a lot of patience and to continue maintaining my son in hospital I had to sober up and go back to work,” Felix explains during the interview.

Pushing through

At the hospital, Felix got to interact with parents whose children also suffer from cancer. Slowly, he began to understand that the illness did not spell doom upon his son and that he had to keep pushing through. With this, he delegated baby-sitting at the hospital to one of his eldest daughters and reported back to work.