How to make lasting social change

Mother Teresa, an Albanian-Indian Roman Catholic nun and missionary, at the Missionaries of Charity for Destitute Children in New Delhi, India on May 15, 1997. PHOTO | RAVI RAVEENDRAN | AFP

What you need to know:

  • Don’t wait around for things to be perfect; we have to act on our dreams.

  • Start by doing what you can.

  • Once you do, it will attract people, other ideas will come and soon you will be living out your own destiny.

  • The key to it is to begin.

  • There are many ways to change things, but it all begins with how you choose to think.

A new year often brings renewed aspirations. Back at the office, talk is full of introspection and hope. Then enter the reality of office politics, the obtrusive corruption and the political climate and the notion of keeping one’s resolutions begins to emerge.

As cynical minds dominate the conversations, the optimists begin to doubt the resolve of personal ambitions. Pretty soon the feeling cultivated by the common desire to be better is swallowed by the mass thinking of social and media events. The conversations turn to Brexit, US election results, The Gambia’s post-election crisis and the same old conversations of the year past take centre stage.

Robin Sharma, the renowned leadership coach reminds us that from the moment we are born, we are surrounded by mass thinking messages. We listen to people around us telling us that we can’t be optimistic, that we should succumb to common ideology. Then society and media start feeding us this mass thinking over and over again, and we start to believe it. We soon resign ourselves to mediocrity. From our personal vision statements to our collective civic responsibility, we stop believing that we can lead an organisation or build a great Fortune 500 company; we stop believing that our individual actions can make the world a better place.

CAST DOUBT

It’s astonishing how quickly mass thinking can cast doubt on the aspiration of personal mission. The very thought of tackling exceedingly insurmountable problems overbearing on our personal desire to be our best. At that moment, we lose hope, not realising that hope is the only thing we have. The hope that transcends all, even the failings of another individual or institution. Instead, we blame our parents or our background, the politicians, our bosses, we blame those around us. The list of blame is endless. The consequences of this choice are many people playing the victim and not the victor and consequently missing out on making a profound difference.

During his famous inaugural address, President J. F. Kennedy challenged a nation to, “ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country”.

Authentic leadership calls for us to relentlessly ask ourselves what we truly want then make a conscious and deliberate effort to do it. So now is a good time to ask, what is your life’s mission? What don’t you like about your life? What don’t you like about the organisation you work for or the country you live in? Then begin to do something to improve things. Start small or go big. Just do something. As Mother Teresa so aptly put it: “If each of us would only sweep their own doorstep, the whole world would be clean”.

PERSONAL VISION

As a business consultant, I often observe that while many have their vision and mission for the market place, they rarely have their personal vision and goals written down. To open up a business, the first step is to write down your company’s vision, mission and purpose. That is what you use to sell your company in the market place. Isn’t it, therefore, amazing that we do not ascribe to the same in our personal lives? That seldom do people write down their personal goals.

I once challenged a business audience to awaken to the reality that if their intentions were not embedded in their personal visions, achieving their company’s mission would be counter intuitive.

When asked what the secret ingredient for transformation was, the allusion from my consulting experience revealed that companies that grow and empower workers experience better financial results than those that do not.

The ability to first set your vision, then share this vision, unlearn old habits, learn new rituals, and improve the individual result is the only true way to get others engaged, company growth and sustainable advantage.

THE DEMANDS

Many failed businesses try to change depending on whom they are competing with or the demands of all. Like these companies, we often lose direction because we have no understanding of who we are and what our life’s purpose is. If anyone whispers that we cannot change our places of work or our country, our internal belief should talk back and say that is a lie.

So don’t let your past wounds bleed into the present and pollute your future. If you don’t feel happy and passionate about the work you are doing, make that change, if you don’t like what you are producing you get to change it.

Don’t wait around for things to be perfect; we have to act on our dreams. Start by doing what you can. Once you do, it will attract people, other ideas will come and soon you will be living out your own destiny. The key to it is to begin.

There are many ways to change things, but it all begins with how you choose to think.

Jeff Aludo is a strategy adviser and managing director, Africapractice East Africa.

Twitter: jeffaludo