JUST BRENDA: How come she’s pregnant yet we barely had sex?

There was no penetration and I did not ejaculate. My girlfriend now tells me that she is pregnant. PHOTO| FILE| NATION MEDIA GROUP

By  BRENDA OKOTH

What you need to know:

  • There is something called the pre-ejaculatory fluid that a man produces before an orgasm which contains sperms.
  • Also remember that only one time is what it takes to get a woman pregnant.
  • Got a question for Brenda? E-mail: [email protected]

Hi Brenda,
I am 22 and I have been in a two year relationship. I’m a practicing secondary virgin and my girlfriend is also a virgin. We decided to wait to have sex because we are both staunch Christians. Now, a few weeks ago, things got hot and heavy and there was a lot of heavy petting. There was no penetration and I did not ejaculate. My girlfriend now tells me that she is pregnant. Could she be?

Of course your girlfriend could be pregnant! A woman can get pregnant without penetration even if you did not ejaculate.

There is something called the pre-ejaculatory fluid that a man produces before an orgasm which contains sperms. This fluid is why the pull out method of contraception doesn’t always work. The best way to be sure is to go to a medical facility and get her tested.

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In the future, if you are not ready for a pregnancy, do not have any form of genital contact with a woman without protection. Also remember that only one time is what it takes to get a woman pregnant. Only one time!

Got a question for Brenda? E-mail: [email protected]

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