JUST BRENDA: Does he really want to marry me?

Thursday November 23 2017

When I ask him about the wedding, he refuses to

When I ask him about the wedding, he refuses to commit to a date. What can I do?  PHOTO| FILE| NATION MEDIA GROUP 

By JUST BRENDA
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Hi,

I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last four years. Last year, he proposed to me and I said yes but the problem is that in the last five months, we have fought and broken up three times! When I ask him about the wedding, he refuses to commit to a date. What can I do?  

 

This guy doesn't want to marry you. That is the short answer. The long answer is, sometimes men can be children, who, instead of saying that they are nervous or scared or not ready to be married, start acting like crazy people so that you break up with them instead of them breaking up with you so that they don't look like the bad guy, especially after they have wasted your time for four years.

Listen, either he is acting like the immature men described above, in which case it's time to move on, or, he's actually tired of the relationship, in which case it is time to move on.

A man who knows what he wants and has said it to the world and claimed you doesn't need to be hogtied down the aisle, least of all by you. Get single and get going.

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