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JUST BRENDA: I think you misunderstood the problem

Tuesday October 16 2018

It seems you get too many emails you are not reading through.

It seems you get too many emails you are not reading through. PHOTO| NATION MEDIA GROUP 

Dear Brenda,
I usually read your page just to know the problems people go through, as no one is immune. The problem are your answers. Most times you seem not to understand what the reader asked. For instance, there is this guy who talked about his wife philandering ways. He said, and I quote, "I once caught her red handed with some boy young enough to be my son". Then you advised him to leave the woman and go with the children, "minus this son of course".

In one issue, one woman seeks for help coz of his hubby's loss of libido. She says once they moved in together after his long distance job ended, this is where the problem began. But you are advising her to move in with the man. It seems you get too many emails you are not reading through. And that would be a problem because you cannot give proper advise if you did not understand the problem in the first place.

Anthony

Hi Anthony,

Thank you for reading and responding. I have remedied that sentence, thanks for pointing it out, and yes, sex counselling is still viable for this particular couple. But as a general overview, telling someone to leave their philandering spouse does seem like something I would say.

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