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Use eye contact to get his attention

Saturday August 24 2013

First time, he’ll assume it was all just an accident. But after your second glance he’ll realise that something’s going on. Do it again...

First time, he’ll assume it was all just an accident. But after your second glance he’ll realise that something’s going on. Do it again... 

CHRIS HART
By CHRIS HART
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You’ve got a guy in your sights? But he’s not responding? Catching his attention is easier than you think!

Start by always feeling good about yourself and dressing well. Everything fitting perfectly. Showing just enough skin to excite his curiosity. A little light perfume maybe.

Always look happy and cheerful. Your eyes lighting up with pleasure at the slightest excuse.

He’ll be captivated by a carefree laugh. The way you bite your lip when you concentrate. Or raise your eyebrows when you make a remark. And men just love flirty gestures from women, so tease back anytime your guy starts anything.

Make sure your voice sounds sexy. Softer and lower. Try it out anytime you’re talking on the phone. And don’t be surprised if the guy starts getting interested!

Men need to feel appreciated by a women, so respond with a smile to even the slightest courteous gesture.

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Now you have to let your guy know you’re interested. And that’s all about eye contact! By far and away the best way of dropping the hint that you’d like to get to know a man better.

Start by casually glancing at him now and then. Sooner or later he’ll notice and look back at you. Lock eyes for just a split second and quickly look away. Downwards. Then look back with a slightly shy look on your face. Glance at him again. Don’t let your eyes linger just yet.

First time, he’ll assume it was all just an accident. But after your second glance he’ll realise that something’s going on. Do it again...

By now he’ll be looking back at you from time to time to check if you’re still staring. So it’s time to reverse the direction of the glances. Stop looking his way for a couple of minutes. Watch him from the corner of your eye.

Chances are he’ll start checking to see if you’re looking at him more often.

Wait for him to look at you. And just as he does, stare back. Now it feels like he’s the one glancing at you, rather than the other way around.

Now you can lock eyes for more than a second before looking away. Talk to your friends or pretend you’re busy, and then stare for a second or two. And each time, smile as you look away.

Is he looking at you as often as you’re looking at him? No? Give up and move on. You can’t win them all. But if he is? Next glance, go for gold! Look straight into his eyes and smile a little. If he smiles back, you’ve in.

Now you need to give him an opportunity to talk to you!

Maybe an unnecessary trip to the bar? Glance towards it when he’s looking at you, look back at him, smile, get up and wander slowly by, looking at him one more time as you pass...

Only a total wimp will fail to get the message.

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